Teenage Mental Health Crisis: Red Flags to Watch Out For

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Published on 15/09/2020 . 4 mins read
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A lot of teenagers who suffer mentally and emotionally do not receive the treatment they need. Some of them are aware of their problem but are afraid to come forward and ask for help. This could be because of the enduring stigma on the teenage mental health crisis in our country. Proper treatment relies on identifying the problem early on. Here are the red flags that you as parents and friends should watch out for.

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Mental Health Red Flags in Teens

Uncharacteristic Behavioral Changes

An abrupt change in behavior should always alert you that something’s going on with your adolescent.

For instance, when a friendly and sociable child suddenly gets into the habit of fighting with others, this may point to an unaddressed emotional issue.

Another red flag is when a generally responsible teenager develops problems in handling simple, daily activities.

Other behavioral red flags are:

  • Interest in alcohol, cigarette smoking, or drugs that were not present before
  • Tendencies to do dangerous or thrill-seeking activities
  • Speaking too fast to the point that it’s hard to understand them
  • Obsession with weight or physique

Parents know their kids best, so when it comes to their behavior, be on the lookout for actions that are uncharacteristic.

Mood Swings and Strong Emotions

In a teenage mental health crisis, changes in moods or emotions are often extreme that they disrupt the child’s daily routine. Examples of strong emotions include:

What’s alarming about these strong emotions is that while they are overwhelming, you may not see the cause that brought them on. It’s as if your teenager just suddenly developed them out of the blue.

Adolescents may experience strong emotions and mood swings due to puberty, hormonal changes, and as a general response to daily stresses. However, these emotions and mood swings usually do not cause rifts between family and friends. If they do, then it’s a clear red flag.

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Problems with Social Connections

You can also find clues in your child’s social relationships.

Are they developing problems with their friends at school? Do they stay away from social activities? Do they appear withdrawn even with the family?

When your previously sociable teen suddenly wants a more isolated environment, they could be dealing with mental health issues.

A Decline in Academic Performance

A teenage mental health crisis also manifests in a child’s academic performance.

What can you say about your child’s grades? Is it declining? An adolescent who’s suffering from mental health issues often finds it hard to focus.

Furthermore, think back on the communications you’ve had with their teachers. Are they informing you of problems like late project submissions? Do they tell you that your child sometimes refuses to cooperate with their groupmates?

Little things like their declining exam scores and missed attendance can also give you an idea of whether or not they may need help in addressing a mental health issue.

Changes from Usual Patterns

To detect a problem, parents are advised to monitor their teenager’s daily patterns and habits.

If you notice some concerning changes, it could mean that your teen is already suffering from a mental health issue.

Look for:

  • Changes in sleeping patterns. Are they having difficulty in sleeping or waking up? Do they have nightmares?
  • Changes in eating habits. Do they skip meals? Are they eating too much? Are they not eating at all?
  • Physical symptoms that have no apparent cause. Examples include headaches, stomach cramps, or other vague “aches and pains.”
  • Problems with disobedience. Do they lack remorse in breaking rules or opposing a person of authority?
  • The way they react to others
  • They talk of hurting or injuring others
  • Signs of self-harm or thoughts of suicide
  • Violence towards animals, people, or properties

Seeking Help

Parents will be able to respond better to their teens if they acknowledge the reason why they refuse to seek guidance.

Below are some of the most common reasons why adolescents resist getting help:

  • Feeling of hopelessness; they believe that they’re not going to get better.
  • Denial that there are issues. Teens sometimes feel that “it’s just the way they are.”
  • Being defensive because they fear that they will receive a “negative reaction.”
  • Feeling ashamed or embarrassed.

According to experts, identifying these reasons will help you “frame” or “tailor” your responses in a way that you wll be able to convince your child to open up and accept treatment.

When to Seek Medical Help 

Whether for yourself or a loved one, don’t hesitate to consult a doctor. Keep track of all the symptoms that you may have noticed and share them with the healthcare practitioner.

Moreover, it will also help if you talk to your child’s friends, classmates, and teachers. These pieces of information will help the doctor assess and diagnose your child’s mental health concerns.

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Helping Teens with Their Mental Health Issues

If you suspect a teenage mental health crisis, you can help your child by:

  • Honestly telling them that you are worried and that you want to help them. Emphasize that you are there when they need you. They are not alone.
  • Explaining that even adults sometimes have problems they need help with. So there’s nothing wrong if they, too, will ask for help.
  • Leading them to articles or websites that talk about mental health illnesses, so that they can do their own data-gathering or fact-checking.
  • Not taking things personally. It will not help the situation if you blame yourself for your child’s mental health illness and symptoms.
  • Emphasizing that sometimes talking to adults can help put things into perspective. After all, adults can think of solutions that children have not encountered yet.
  • Involving them in how they will receive treatment. Ask them where they want to go and talk them through that they could expect.

Key Takeaways

A teenage mental health crisis is a serious concern. When not addressed properly, this can lead to even more concerning risks such as substance abuse, violence, or even suicide. Don’t hesitate to seek medical help if you are worried about your teen’s behavior and mental well-being.

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