As a parent, you also teach your children ways to avoid any situation healthily. Whenever relatives ask for skinship, ask them “ Would you like to give a hug or would you prefer a handshake?” This helps your child and relative understand that you don’t force your child to hug or be physically affectionate.
For stubborn friends and relatives, you may need to clearly state why you don’t want them being physically affectionate with your child– it’s not a personal attack against them but rather a protective measure for your child.
Key takeaway
Asking your kids to hug or kiss relatives in greeting may be the norm, but it’s important to remember not to force hug your kids, or ask them to hug or kiss other people. Doing this both opens your kids to potential threats, and affects their sense of bodily autonomy. Instead, suggest a hive-five, or shaking hands.
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