Children can know when you’re not being sincere with your praises. If you tell them “You were the best player in the field,” when another classmate obviously did better, they might think you’re not paying attention to them or that you don’t believe they can do any better.
Praise the effort and focus on progress
Try not to compare your children to others. Instead, focus on how they performed and then help them reflect on how they feel about their own achievement.
In our marathon example, it’s not necessarily bad for all to receive a medal. But, it might help if you praise your child by saying, “Congratulations on finishing the race, how do you feel about it? Do you think it was your best effort?”
Of course, focus on progress, too. If their handwriting improved, tell them so. “Hey, your hard work is paying off, your handwriting has really improved!”
More than praise, show appreciation
On top of praising children, show them you appreciate their effort, too because it has positively affected others consequently.
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