Why Does the Stigma of Not Having Children Remain?
Childlessness2, or not having children, can either be voluntary or involuntary. In the case of voluntary childlessness, a person or a couple might have decided to not have any children at all. On the other hand, involuntary childlessness means that a person or a couple want to have children, but for one reason or another, is unable to do so.
In numerous countries, including the Philippines, not having any children when you’re already of age leads to social stigma. For Filipinos, one reason for this is the expectation that when a person reaches a certain age, they should already have kids or plan to have kids.
Filipinos believe that children are a gift from God, and that they are “blessings.” There is also the cultural norm that once a woman reaches a certain age, she needs to get married and have children. This is why there is constant pressure for people to have children, whether they want to or not.
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