The idea that there is such a thing as an “intact” hymen is a huge misconception.
Every woman is different, and therefore, it is normal for the hymen to vary in size, shape, and appearance. For instance, while it is common for the hymen to have a half-moon shape, some hymen look like a donut, some have fringes, while others have several holes or lobes.
In other words, there is no “intact” hymen because it is not the same for everyone. In addition, some women don’t have a hymen at all!
Myth 4: You’ll Hurt and Bleed When the Hymen is “Broken”
Contrary to popular belief, the hymen is not totally “rigid and penetrable;” many women have a stretchy and flexible hymen. This is the reason why some ladies feel pain while others do not feel anything during penetrative sex or masturbation.
On the issue of bleeding, let us remember that the hymen is just remnant tissue. This means that it has relatively few blood vessels. So while you can bleed from hymen tearing or trauma, it does not necessarily happen to everyone.
Myth 5: The Hymen “Disappears” After the First Sexual Intercourse
The hymen does not disappear after the first sexual intercourse; in fact, it doesn’t even “break” in most instances. Perhaps the better, more appropriate term is it “changes.”
To explain how the hymen changes, let us go back to the idea that it is leftover tissue. In newborns, the hymen is thick and pronounced, but as the years pass, it becomes thinner.
What it means is that the hymen does not break or disappear in one event. In fact, it could stretch, become torn, or thinned out depending on what a woman experiences.
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