Myth 5: You need to have an erection to have sex
Some men believe that sex is just penetrative sex, and that they need to have an erection in order to have sex. This is also why some men tend to get hung up about the question of “how long can the average guy stay hard?” since they believe that sex always involves penetration.
Foreplay, oral sex, and other forms of touching can be just as pleasurable as sex. Sometimes mixing it up can even improve a couple’s sex life! So do not be afraid to use toys or other means of having sex with your partner. Feel free to explore and try different things to keep it interesting.
Myth 6: You need to have an orgasm to be satisfied
This is another myth that men are susceptible to believe. While having an orgasm feels good, it is just as fine to not have one when having sex. Having “blue balls” might not be a fun feeling, but it does not cause any damage, nor is it bad for your health.
The problem with this myth lies when men are too focused on giving themselves an orgasm. They forget about their partner’s pleasure. So it is important for men to focus more on the act of having sex itself. This will make the experience much more meaningful and enjoyable.
Myth 7: Men are done with sex once they have an orgasm
This last one is a prevailing myth that can sometimes cause couples to have problems in bed. There is a myth that once a man has an orgasm, then the sex is immediately done, regardless of whether or not his partner is satisfied or not.
But this is not always the case. There is what is called a refractory period, or the period after an orgasm when a man can have sex again. Usually, this is around 15-20 minutes for a healthy male. This means that after a 15-20 minute break, most men are able to have sex again without any problems.
Hopefully, this cleared up some myths and common misconceptions about male sexuality. It is important to keep yourself informed about these things in order to have a more enjoyable sex life.
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