Orgasms are under strong selective pressure in men. Their orgasms are coupled with ejaculation and thus contribute to male reproductive success. By contrast, women’s orgasms in intercourse are highly variable. They are under little selective pressure since are not a reproductive necessity.
While it is easy to surmise that men orgasm once they have ejaculated, there is a theory that women do so only as a “fantastic bonus.” Elisabeth Lloyd, a science historian at Indiana University-Bloomington, points out that only about 8% of women consistently have orgasms during penetrative intercourse (without the use of other assistance, such as sex toys). On the other hand, nearly all men do.
Key Takeaways
While most assume that orgasms are the end goal of sex, that is not necessarily the case. For women, in particular, there are several ways that they can achieve an orgasm. When we ask “What are the characteristics of a good orgasm?,” it involves muscles spasming, blood pressure and heart rates rising, and a forceful release of sexual tension, among others.
Although ejaculating is a good sign of orgasm being achieved in men, there are other ways to trigger it in more sensitive individuals. Understanding these differences and having open communication with one’s sexual partner is important in having the best orgasm.
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