Communicate
As you massage your spouse, be sure to check in with them frequently. This is to see if they are feeling comfortable with what you’re doing or if they would prefer that you do another service.
Don’t be afraid to communicate. It will make all the difference and help you two become closer.
Massage the prostate
If necessary and with your spouse’s permission, think about including some sensual prostate stimulation in your lingam massage. Once you’ve located the prostate, gently push a finger into the anus with the tip pointing toward the front of the body. This stimulates the region using light pressure. Prostate stimulation in some guys may even result in a pleasurable prostate orgasm.
Edging
As you massage your partner’s penis, pay attention to their breathing and body language. If you notice them breathing unevenly and shallowly, or if they begin thrusting their hips into your hand, slow down. Moving on to massage other parts of their body also helps. Edging or orgasm control is a major component of lingam massage. It can help your partner have intense orgasms that last longer.
Remind them to breathe slowly and deeply, give them a chance to calm down, and then start stimulating their penis again. If you do this often, the orgasm they eventually experience will be stronger.
If you or your spouse has an orgasm during the massage, you shouldn’t feel pressured to end the session early because a sensual lingam massage can still be delightful after an orgasm.
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