Consider Scheduling Sex
Scheduling sex might make you feel and think that sex is obligatory, but many couples swear by the benefits of actually putting intimacy in their calendars. For them, having a schedule means accepting that they need to make time for each other. Furthermore, it gives them something to be excited about.
If you want to schedule sex, be sure to talk to each other about the day and time that works for both of you. Of course, do your best to stick to the schedule, but be prepared to do a rain check if things don’t go as planned.
Finally, be open to the kind of intimacy involved. There may be times when you don’t want to have penetrative sex, and all you want to do is cuddle or kiss. That, too, is okay, because what’s important is intimacy.
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